Why the Divine Feminine Awakens First

In the dance of twin flames, and in the healing of this world, it is almost always the Feminine who awakens first. Why? Because she has carried the memory of love longer. Because her body remembers what his has forgotten. Because she lives closer to the Earth, the Moon, the cycles of life and death and so she hears the call sooner. The Feminine is cracked open by longing. By grief. By unacknowledged sacrifice. By the ache of love that feels missing but is already here. She awakens through her pain, through the darkness, through surrender. And she begins the work, not only for herself but also for him. She clears, heals, remembers, prays… for two.

Meanwhile, the Masculine resists. He runs. He fights the pull, the mirror, the truth. Because awakening asks him to shatter everything he thought made him strong, and that terrifies him. The masculine often appears “untouched”, not because he’s strong, but because he’s refusing to feel: numbing, hiding, denying, avoiding, and maintaining the illusion longer. Meanwhile the feminine has carried the work of awakening on this planet for eons. The feminine is the one who remembers the way back. But that does not mean She deserved the pain.It means the world (and the connection) demanded too much of Her, as it often does of women. But her rising is not in vain. Her light touches him, even when he hides. Her remembrance plants seeds in his soul that one day will bloom.

The Divine Feminine awakens first because she is the key that unlocks them both. And so, to every Feminine on this path: Be patient. You are not just awakening for yourself. You are the torchbearer, the guide, the mirror, and your light is already working on him, even if he doesn’t yet know. You rise first so that he can rise at all. But you no longer have to carry him, because you found your wholeness outside of the connection, within yourself, with the Divine. And you get to tell the unawakened masculine: “I give back to you everything that was yours to carry but fell on me. I am no longer your mule. I stand in my own light now.

"You remember so that love can return to wholeness".

You are the beginning.